I hope you enjoyed ringing in the new year... with friends or at a watch night service at your church or in a quiet dream state in your own comfy bed. Wherever you were, may this symbolic turning page bring a moment of reflection. And perhaps a moment of looking ahead.

For quite a few years now I've been resisting that "set big resolutions for the new year" moment. Instead I like to engage in a practice that two friends in an academic writing group taught me. I make and share a list of ten things I did that mattered to me and others I care about in my life. Honoring the ways we spend our energy and love is a counter to false dreams of consumer culture (bigger, better, faster, cooler things).

A few days ago, I hosted a live zoom event. During "Tending the Fires" I took time to talk with Duane Bidwell. He is one of the people who taught me the "Ten Things I Did that Mattered" practice. Listen to five minutes of our conversation here:

What did you do that mattered in 2022?

You can read my list of 10 things here.

Then, you are invited. Write your list of ten things you did last year that mattered. Do it for yourself. Share it with family and/or friends. Or even share it publicly. Join the resistance to culture’s ways of telling us what is important. Acknowledge for yourself what is truly important. The things you spent your time, energy, and love on in 2022.  

And if you decide to share your list on social media, tag me and/or 3MMM. We want to honor and celebrate your good, life-giving work with you. You can connect with us here: